I did Tol Barad last night. I occasionally jump in if I happen to see it is up. I always give it my best. I don’t care if I die 100 times to one person, or if I am locked out and stunned by a well coordinated group. I give it my best and keep trying until it’s over. Last night we were the attackers, which can be a challenge if there is a decent defense, and last night there was. Saw a few names I know that are decent PvP players, and when time ran out they had defended and were victorious.
What I did not expect was to be spit on, laughed at, and several other emotes directed specifically at me. I’m an adult, I treat all other players as adults. If you want to shut me down and kill me over and over because you are a more skilled player, I will /bow you when it is over. If I defeat you many times during a fight I will /salute you for doing your best and trying. If I wanted to be treated and mocked like that I would go learn to play League of Legends.
We all have choices in what we do in game. If that is the way some people on our joint server want to play then I will go off and work on other things. The reason I play on a PvE server is I can do all sorts of things and Not have to PvP unless I want to. So I choose to just walk away. You are the better player in PvP content, enjoy many empty victories because I choose to play with players I respect.